Friday, March 7, 2008

Compliments

The basis for this post is one of Seinfeld's stand-up gags. The argument is that when someone complements the clothes that you wear, they are faithfully complementing that particular article of clothing and absolutely nothing else. So when I say, 'Hey that's a nice shirt you are wearing', ok or Baliga says 'oh really. Thank you' and takes pride in them assuming the complement was showered on them rather than the shirt itself. (ok and Baliga no offence :P)

I tend to disagree with this hypothesis. It may be so that the shirt in question is absolutely fabulous but it also has to suit the person who is wearing that shirt, for that matter it's true for most pieces of clothing. (unquestionably so for lingerie :D)

So how does this particular observation fit into my life? I recently got a brand new Altima coupe and have been receiving complements for it from friends, to office folks, to complete strangers in parking lots.



Even though it's all nice and sweet, it just doesn't make me all happy and proud. Unlike the clothing argument, my looks are totally immaterial to the fact that I am driving a super sexy car. I have noticed strangers ogling at my car for five straight minutes, look embarrassed when I walk up to the car, complement my car and leave instantly. This makes it all the more worse more so when done by a gorgeous damsel as her untimely disappearance upon my arrival paints a false picture that it's me who makes the car look awful. Sigh!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

WTF! Coupe a? You must be earning a truck load of money. Seriously, seriously sexy sexy car.

By staring at your car they are adimiring your for being sooo successfull!

-Ok

Swetha said...

That's why you should get a crappier car like mine so that the driver gets all the attention and not the driven :D

btw, it's compliment and not complement :p

Santu said...

@ Leo:
Dude... you are not married to your car like others I have noticed, and so don't feel so personal when a compliment is passed on it. It's perfectly OK not to fantasize your car.. there are other options around ;-)

leoNYdas said...

@ok: ohh that coupe isn't all that expensive ;)

@dushti: wow, I am sure that changes the entire meaning of the post :P

@santu: Thanks for reminding me that :P

Baliga said...

u know i would agree with u on one level. but at another level i firmly beliv the man maketh the clothes. more importantly how u carry them clothes off. u can make it look good. or not :P

but. but at times i get wht ur saying as well.
esp when it comes to a gorgeous car.